Dear Pixie – Best Experiences

 

Dear Pixie,

What were some of your favorite LS experiences?  Thanks for the great blog!

XOXOXOXO’s

 

Thank you!  That’s a tough one.  We had a couple that we met early on and had gotten very close with and spent many hot nights with them.  One night in particular, we took turns hanging each other from a door with a pair of special hand cuffs and spent time torturing whoever was hanging.  That was a night to remember.  We met one couple at a hotel and got naughty with them in the men’s bathroom, which was pretty hot because someone almost caught us!  We’ve been to many awesome parties at the LS clubs where we didn’t have sex with anyone else (well, maybe girl play lol), which we’ll never forget.  Just hanging out with sexy friends can’t be beat!  I loved the Girls Uncorked parties.  Our last night at Iniquity was surreal with so many of our close friends showing up to say good bye.  That was a great night, and we didn’t even get naked (damn mother nature)! LOL!!

Probably the hottest night ever was upstairs at Iniquity in Dallas about two weeks before we left Dallas.  We played with hot two really hot couples at the same for a several hours.  It started with the three girls getting super naughty for about 45mins.  Then we sat the guys down and each girl went to a different guy all soft swapping back and forth.  That was about as erotic as it gets.  Everyone was smokin’ hot and we had drawn quite a crowd of observers. LOL ! The one couple was soft swap only, so they did their thing and we ended up full swapping with the other couple – despite having declared that I was “going soft” just a few days earlier!  The guy treated me right and we all had a good time!  That was an amazing night.

Thanks and XOXOXOXO’s back at ya!

Our First Party In NC!!

 

Well, our first lifestyle party in North Carolina came about this past weekend. We were on SLS when a girl found us and told us about a party going on in Greensboro. Hubby got to chatting with her on Yahoo and she directed us to a site we had not heard of called Playfulswingers.com. Hubby created an account on the site and found the information on the party. The Halloween party, called an Aahz party, was one of several parties held throughout the year in various cities throughout the North Carolina and several other states. We made a few inquiries, and we found out the party was a two-evening event, Friday and Saturday nights, at a very nice Hotel.

That Friday morning we tried booking a room at the hotel but we found out that the party hotel was booked Friday night, but two rooms remained Saturday night. So, we booked a room for Saturday night and found a nearby hotel for Friday night. We were lucky to get a room for Saturday night! Since we weren’t able to commit until that Friday morning, we didn’t even bother finding costumes. We figured we would just show up and see what fun we could find. With about 150 couples expected to show, we were pretty excited about going.

Friday night was the meet-n-greet night, which started at 9pm. There were many people who met in a conference type of room adjoining the bar and Hubby and I started mingling. Obviously, we didn’t know anyone at all. The crowd was impressively attractive, however, and we felt very comfortable. It didn’t take too long and we started meeting people. Around midnight, the party moved upstairs where the main event was a sexually charged Eyes Wide Shut event, but was closed off unless you had a cape and mask, neither of which we had. But, we weren’t alone either. Many couples didn’t go to the show. We left around 1:30am and were already exciting to go back the next night.

Saturday night came and we had moved to the hotel and prepared for the party, which was to start at 9pm. It didn’t take too long and the huge ballroom was filled with over a 100 couples all dressed in various forms of Halloween costumes (except us). There were two dance poles set up (which I made use of), a shadow box, cash bar, and a nice dance floor. There was some seating, but most chose to stand and mingle. We felt a little out of place, because we didn’t have time to get any costumes, but everyone made us feel comfortable too. We met a lot of very nice people. Again, we were impressed with relatively younger crowd and many hotties that were there.

We did see several people getting thoroughly naughty and we started thinking that this may get fun in a hurry, but it didn’t take long for those in charge to tamp things down a bit. LOL! The after party started at 1am upstairs on the second floor where many people had suites all decorated in Halloween themes. There were those with Jello shots and specialty drinks. Overall, the after party was relatively tame, from what we could tell. Nobody seemed to be too hammered and it was not the orgy that we’d seen in similar parties in Dallas. I’m sure there were some private rooms and such where that was going on, but we didn’t see much in the open rooms and suites. Of course, that was fine with us as we hadn’t expected to do anything at all that night. Regardless, the people were very friendly, sexy, and knew how to throw a great party. I think we called it a night at 2:30am or so.

So, it seems like our first lifestyle party in North Carolina was a success. We met a lot of great people and we’re hoping to see all of them again at the next Aahz party. I would encourage all my readers to check out these great sites!

Update

I may have found an exciting new site!  I’ll let you know.

Also, we’ve been invited to a Halloween party here in North Carolina.  There seems to be a lot of hotties attending.  Can’t wait to get back into the swing of things!

I haven’t forgotten!

Hello everyone,

I haven’t forgotten about writing.  I’ve just been busy with the move.  I have a lot of Dear Pixie’s I will be responding to as soon as I can!

Thanks!

Goodbye Texas!

 

Goodbye Texas!

Sadly, our time in Texas has come to end.  We want to say goodbye to all our friends and thank you for all the great times.  The past several weeks, in particular, have been some of the wildest, most erotic we’ve ever experienced in the lifestyle.  While we are sad that we have to leave, we know that a new chapter is about to begin in North Carolina and we are looking forward to new adventures and experiences. 

Cheers to you!

Dear Pixie: Mood Enhancers

 

Dear Pixie,

I’ve read on your profile that you don’t like to play if people are drunk.  I appreciate that so much!  Why do so many people have to be wasted to play?

Thank you!  Awesome blog!

Thank you!  I don’t want to give anyone the idea that we are sober freaks, because we certainly aren’t!  LOL  Hell, we’re out drinking ever Friday and Saturday night!  It’s more a matter of degree depending on what our plans are for the evening.  We’ve had a couple experiences where we drank to excess with couples and, as a result, some regrettable things happened.  Nothing too serious, but things which wouldn’t have happened had everyone been far more sober.   Don’t get me wrong, both Hubby and I love to drink (even to excess), but we won’t play hardcore if anyone has been drinking too much.  To be perfectly honest, we both enjoy playing when we’ve had a bit too much, but the problem is that every time we’ve played while thoroughly drunk, the other guy has tried to do things which he knew were out of bounds. 

I think all of us girls know that guys tend to see us as red meat anyway, but when we’re drunk they see us a perfectly grilled porterhouse!  So, for me, it comes down to keeping my wits because I won’t trust a guy to keep my best interests in mind while in the moment – even more so if he’s been drinking excessively.  It’s simply my preference in a full swap situation.  Now, when I know that we’re in a situation where full swap isn’t going to happen, then we’ve been known to get pretty well hammered and have had a great time partying.  Certainly, some of the hottest girl-play I’ve ever had has been while everyone was fairly well lit.  LOL!!

 I think some people need to be wasted and some want to be wasted to play.  The reasons probably vary for everyone.  Take my Hubby for example.  The more he drinks the more fun he becomes because he’s a naturally reserved kind of guy.  Of course, if he knows we may be playing, he won’t drink too much.  But, he doesn’t have to drink a drop to play either.  I’m naturally bubbly and can party almost as hard sober as I can drunk.  I personally believe that if someone MUST be wasted to play, then there is something wrong and they are probably in the lifestyle for the wrong reasons.  A lot of the girls we see only play with other girls once they are drunk – bar-bi’s.  Not me.  I can be ready to go at 10am on a Sunday morning, sober as can be – for the right hot girl!  In fact, day time girl play is always a very welcomed treat!  ;)  LMAO! 

So, I guess it’s a matter of preference.  We’re not compatible with couples that need to be absolutely hammered, especially if they are looking for full swap.  Hubby and I are also not into drugs, which are not unusual – at least from our observations.  I tend not to play with girls who are wasted unless I’m fairly well hammered too.  For the most part, we’ve really enjoyed the early evening, totally sober, experiences we’ve had with couples.  But, if we’re in a girl-girl only situation or doing some softer kissy/touchy stuff with a couple(s) at a club, then we don’t have a problem drinking our fair share.  Either way, we don’t need to drink at all to have a good time, but there are certainly many people out there who can’t play without drinking to excess too.

Kasidie.com on Tyra Banks Today!!

 

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Happy Hump Day!

 

 

Pixie Goes Soft!

 

Last week, a reader asked me for advice for dealing with guys who can’t seem to perform when the time comes.  At the end of my two cents, I suggested getting away from full swap and let the expert (i.e., her hubby) finish her off.  Lately, I too have had one disappointment after another with non performing guys, while my husband is banging away like an energizer bunny with the other girl!  Sure, I feel great that he’s having a good time but, I can’t help it, … what about me!?  I mean this SUCKS!!!  That question really sparked me into thinking why should I continue being disappointed. 

I know it’s not me.  All the guys, even in the moment, say it’s not me.  We’ve done the sniff test… I know… eeewww!  So, that’s not the problem.  All the guys on the forums who complain of this say it’s not the girls.  My hubby says it’s not the girls.  I seriously doubt it’s an age issue with these guys in their 30’s.  Maybe it’s the condoms, or they aren’t as experienced as they let on.  I have no idea what is going on between their ears and, to be quite frank, I couldn’t care less when I’m lying there waiting to get banged.  Whether it’s be not being able to keep it up, finish off, or even get it up at all, I’ve had enough disappointment.  I mean full swap is supposed to mean FULL swap!  Hey, I LOVE oral, but I want a nice hard cock to finish me off!  Is that too much to ask?

I honestly never saw all of this coming. In the beginning, our problem was finding guys who were simply respectful.  Now, we’re finding fairly decent guys, but they can’t get it up, keep it up, or finish off!  In one instance, several months ago, it was a three minute marathon. WTF!?  Call me selfish, but I want to get laid too!  I’m absolutely tired of stroking egos and cocks while praying to the sex gods that they indulge the guy with a functioning tool.  Screw that shit! 

I haven’t gotten properly laid by a guy, other than my husband, in at least four months.  One of our best experiences, from my perspective, was a soft swap in a men’s locker room four or five weeks ago!  So, the Pixie is going soft… soft swap.  I talked with Hubby about this a few times over the past several weeks, and we finally came to the conclusion that full swap has just not been fun for me at all.  In fact, it’s been downright horrible at times.  Last night, we talked and we both agreed that we’re going to take a break from full swap for a while and go to hardcore soft swap. 

So, a new page is being turned.  We are now seeking couples who have advanced degrees in seduction and oral sex!!  Woohooo!!  You can apply by going to our profile on Kasidie or SDC.  While all the other preliminary qualifications still apply (ages ~21-41, HWP, sexy, ultra respectful, DDD free, etc.), men who experience erectile dysfunction will not be disqualified.  LOL!!

Happy Hump Day!